I'm Not Ashamed of My Pregnancy

Hello, I'm Aubrey. I'm 19 years old and pregnant. I'm not married yet, and I only just completed my freshman year in college. I have a small part-time job and I currently live at home with my parents. They pay for a lot of my stuff, but sometimes I buy my own clothes and food and stuff.

Hearing that, you could say I'm a statistic. On paper, it may look that way. But I'm here to tell you that I am not ashamed of my pregnancy. Don't get me wrong, I understand the seriousness of my actions and choices and I plan to live humbly. But I am not ashamed, and I never will be.

A child is a miracle. I think anyone can agree with this. And, in my opinion, miracles come from the Lord. And the Lord doesn't make mistakes. I believe that everything happens for a reason, and there's always something to learn. In this case, Luke and I have been given an opportunity to spread our love for children onto our own child. There is no love like the love of a mother or father and their child. We have been given the chance to get our lives together and improve ourselves in order to give another human being a chance at a successful life.

I refuse to apologize for getting pregnant young. Our choices were our own, but the timing is all in God's hands. No, it's not going to be easy. Have you ever heard anyone say that raising a baby is a breeze? Even the most "prepared" family knows it's hectic.

Our situation does not in any way reduce the amount of love that this child will receive. My darling Abigail, mommy will love you. Daddy will love you. Your grandparents will love you. Your aunts and uncles and cousins will love you. You will have friends and family and everything you could possibly need. This baby will be loved, and she will never have to doubt that for a moment.

So if you still think I should be ashamed of this pregnancy, you're wrong. And, with all due respect, if you choose to judge us on our decisions and situation, I really don't care to hear about it. Through a time like this, we need nothing but support and love. If you choose to bring hatred and negativity around us, don't expect much respect in return.

To those of y'all who have been nothing but loving and supportive, we appreciate every bit of it. We are so grateful for all the good vibes and prayers that have been sent our way, and we just want to thank you for everything. We truly couldn't do this without y'all. Thanks so so much.

xoxo, a.